Volunteering at Burning Man

After five hours in traffic, creeping through a gritty haze of dust, we got a knock on our car window. “Any Burning Man virgins in there?” said a lady in steampunk goggles and a magenta wig. We pulled up our dust masks and hopped out, knowing this was the start of our initiation as first-time “Burners.” The greeter threw open her arms, said “Welcome home” and enveloped us with a bear hug. “Now hit the ground and give a roll.” The alkaline dust of the Black Rock Desert, an Ice-Age lakebed ringed with mountains, is a part of the fabric and magic of this inhospitable landscape. There is no avoiding it, and embracing this layer that will coat your skin, hair, and everywhere is the first step in letting go of the sterile “default world.” So we rolled, kicking up chalky clouds and giggling it in. Once thoroughly caked, we hopped up for the final step: ringing a gong and crying out, “I’m not a virgin anymoooooore!!!”

Never Never Camp

Burning Man theme camp

We pulled up to our theme camp, a shell of a structure with tarps, rebar, and coolers strewn about, and spotted our friend Josiah in a denim vest and pink tutu. Two months prior at a VanLife gathering, his lime green Westfalia was parked next to our striped Sunrader and we bonded over campers, Fernet, and a fascination with Burning Man. We had always been tempted to go but were frankly a little intimidated by the ticket price, drug scene, apocalyptic weather, packing lists, and commitment to nine days camping in the unknown. Josiah‘s lovable humor, passion for The Burn, and invitation into his 30-person camp gave us the guts to pull the trigger. Upon arrival at Never Never Camp, we were met with hugs and a hammer to finish our Lost-Boys theme bar with the help of our fellow members—an incredible assortment of engineers, DJs, doctors, models, architects, photographers, and fun-loving people. Together with our pirate crows-nest bar, shade structures, and shipping-container kitchen, we were a rock-solid community within a city of 70,000.

Our Desert Shelter: SHIFTPOD

best tent for burning man

Our camp was a sea of tents and RVs in all shapes and sizes, with one fellow SHIFTPOD. When we started researching the best shelter options for the Black Rock Desert, this high-tech pop-up shelter kept coming up. The founders are long-time Burners who understand this region’s extreme daytime heat (as high as 110F in past years), nighttime chill, gale-force winds, and the need for a comfortable respite in a nine-day marathon. When we heard the company was giving four SHIFTPODS to content creators attending Burning Man, we had to throw our hat in the ring. So thankful we got it—this shelter was an absolute godsend. In under a three-minute setup time, we had a proper home for the week! (Full Shiftpod review here)

A City of Burning Man Neighborhoods

Black Rock City Aerial Shot

Black Rock City is a pop-up metropolis, spanning seven-square miles, built with the shape and organization of a clock. The Man is at the center with four main thoroughfares (12:00, 3:00, 6:00, 9:00) radiating out to the Esplanade (the interior ring road with the biggest camps and many of the flashiest art installations), and then the streets break down in 15-minute increments intersected by rings of letter-streets (We lived at 3:15 & H). Each section is literally a village with everything you could need or dream up. On our street alone, we had camps offering bike repair, hair braiding, yoga, grilled cheese, dim sum, and plenty of fun bars (Putt-putt for PBR was among our favorites)…and it’s all free! (Wondering how we took this sick aerial photo? One of our camp members was a former African bush plane pilot, who brought his prop plane to give out rides as his gift to fellow Burners! Thanks, Charles!)

Radical Self-Reliance & The Gifting Economy

Burning Man

Aside from ice and coffee, nothing is sold or even bartered at Burning Man. This is a community of gifting, with each camp providing a service for everyone’s enjoyment—be it art, food, drinks, classes, or a hammock in the shade. It’s also a community of radical self-reliance; if everyone can take care of themselves, they are in a better position to look out for their neighbors. Our camp’s bar was perpetually open, encouraging passersby to stay for a beer or take one of our famous “Goose Body Shots” (liquor poured down the wing of a 3-foot-long plastic lawn ornament). For our personal gifts, we made pins from sea glass we’d been gathering along the West Coast to give to new friends whenever we were struck with gratitude and love.

Adventures in Advice & Ice Tea

Burning Man Gifting

Our good buddy Anna Kate, of Legendary Adventures of Anna and a seasoned Burner, tapped us to help execute her gift: a pop-up AdvICE Tea Stand in Deep Playa, the most desolate and dreamy place for a cold drink and nugget of wisdom. This was a true labor of love. We hand-painted signs, iced down gallons of tea, and then began a six-hour journey by foot and three different hitchhikes. We stood on the corner with all our gear and a sign that said “Deep Playa or Bust.” The first art car to stop was a two-story ostrich with seats in his belly, followed by “Cinderella,” a princess carriage transporting three generations of Burners (Grandma was 82 years old!). Our next leg proved harder to hitch so we set up the stand in a random spot near The Man. Mike and our friend Kamal started dishing travel and love advice as Anna and I leaped in front of mutant vehicles. Turns out, few cars head to the Deep Playa but the Shenanigan Wagon said he would make the journey anyway. “Sure we can take you,” said the guy driving this covered-wagon-meets-tall-ship, “We just have to stop at 9:00 & D, first.” A party broke out instantly with our fellow passengers, further full of bar pit stops. Just as the sun was setting we reached the Deep Playa. We quickly set up our stand and kept our advice, tea, and hugs rolling until the final stretches of our walk home at 10pm.

Art Cars & Installations

Burning Man

Over 400 art installations graced the Playa this year. Not roped off or guarded by docents, the majority are made for interaction, if not climbing. There are world-renowned architects like Bjarke Ingels (currently building 2 World Trade Center) putting up $100,000 dollar installations, to first-time Burners making art cars from junkyard treasures and paint in their garage. In a conversation with a volunteer at the Artery (the operations department for all registered art), she made us realize what a rare and important international stage this is for artists. Black Rock City offers virtually no space constraints, few safety regulations, and over a million dollars in art grants to help realize maximum creativity. When a community is founded on radical self-expression, participation, and inclusion, art has few critics and a world of new enthusiasts.

Activities, Participation & Immediacy

Burning Man 2018

The beauty of Burning Man is the participation…everyone is creating or partaking in something at every turn. The Burning Man schedule of events is a 191-page book with dozens of activities happening each hour, and upwards of a hundred repeating each day. The majority are independently set up by normal ticket holders and the larger civic happenings (like lighting the street torches, delivering the mail, or stocking the ice shops) are run by armies of volunteers. Browse the book and the cheeky creativity of participants is endless. Try a ManiTedi (manicures and Ted Talks), add zen to your happy hour with MaiTai-Chi, rock an air guitar competition, improve your well-being with a “Free Yourself From Tech” seminar, or “Ask a Buddhist” life coaching. We found that if there is something that really strikes you, seek it out, but the serendipity of wandering and joining in is what a Burn is all about. (We would have never sought out Glitter Camp but when we saw the sparkliest, happiest humans coming out of the paint-a-friend booth, we had to try this second skin.)

Costume Culture

Kostume Kult

While we did our share of costume shopping at Goodwill and Salvation Army to pull off that Mad Max-meets-Priscilla Queen of the Desert look, it always helps to have a few more outlandish outfits and tips from the fashion professionals. Enter Kostume Kult. This huge camp of fashion designers, wardrobe stylists, and RuPaul fans collects thousands of accessories throughout the year and sets up a free shop and design studio for new Burners to get fabulous. We scored a blue tuxedo, rhinestone top hat, rams horns, leopard-trim leather coat, beaded booties, and more. The catch? You have to wear it all at once and strut down a catwalk on the Esplanade. A number of camps offer communal costume closets, jewelry boxes, and beauty services. It’s all for keeps and they’d never even ask for donations but when we offered Comfort & Joy’s budding closet our entire costume collection after Burning Man, they were thrilled to take them for next year.

Gourmet Cabaret

Burning Man

Why did Mike need a powder blue tuxedo and top hat? We had a sunset wedding, followed by a gourmet dinner party, of course! A friend we met in Thailand in 2013 is a chef by trade and does fundraisers to support Stu and The Kids, a non-profit that helps put undeserved and orphaned hill tribe children through school. When he found out we were going to be at Burning Man he invited us to a five-course dinner and show, co-hosted by Neal Fraser, Food Network Star and owner of LA’s acclaimed Redbird restaurant. This would be an incredible opportunity under any circumstances, but in the middle of the desert–where even running water is hard to come by, much less industrial ovens, Sub-Zero refrigerators, and a six-burner stove–it was unbelievable. Freshly bird-bathed and dressed to impress, we braved the biggest dust storm of the week by bicycle only to arrive at a white-linen oasis. We had halibut ceviche avocado mousse, spiced honey-nut squash, crema pana cotta with watermelon granita and chili lime dust, and more to the backdrop of gypsies on rollerskates and dancing daffodils. Surreal, delicious, an honor.

Music Scene: More than Techo

burning man music scene

As two people who aren’t into techno or house music, we were a little nervous that a pounding base would be the soundtrack for the week. And to be fair “Sound Camps” have their run of the speakers but we also found incredible folk music at Reverbia, a dozen 80s & 90s throwback DJs, and even classical by the Black Rock Philharmonic (complete with audience accompaniment on kazoo). And when an art car in the shape of a dragon goes by bobbing its head to the beat, it’s hard not to dance to whatever they’re playing.

Sunrise at The Trash Fence

Burning Man Trash Fence Parties

There are “Night Burners” and “Day Burners” and then there is that witching sunrise hour where they intersect. We were mostly on Team Day Burn, going to bed around 2am and waking up at 9am but one morning we were motivated for a sunrise (a must!). We sought out one of the highest points on the Playa, Lodestar: a nosediving Lockheed Martin military jet with its tail spliced into the petals of a daisy blooming with a roll-bar viewing cage. We climbed the 50 feet and watched the sun crest over the Black Rock Range and dim the neon lights on every club. Some bikers were heading back home and some were going deeper into the Playa. The boundary line and net to catch blowing litter, The Trash Fence, is also the stage for the best daybreaker parties. Three different art cars had DJs commanding an audience of thousands at 7am. Off to the sides were snugglers, hula-hoopers, pancake makers, and even a couple getting married under an arbor of scrap metal.

Burning The Man

Burning Man Virgin Experience

Nine days in the dusty desert without a proper shower sounded like an eternity, but it was quickly coming to an end. Thursday night started a rolling burn of 55 art installations across the Playa with Saturday night incinerating The Man. 70,000 people can quickly dissipate into seven square miles and hundreds of venues but virtually all gather for this one event. Shoulder to shoulder with our fellow BRC Citizens, we watched these AC / DC-style fireworks spectacularly take him down into the biggest ball of flames we’d ever seen. If you thought every other night was a party night, this is the mother of them all.

Camp Never Never Stop

Burning Man watercolor

We woke up Sunday morning for a camp-wide pancake breakfast and bittersweet tear-down. No complainers, no slackers, this group of previous strangers felt like a proper team and genuine friends. The Never Never Crows Nest and village of tents may have come down but the spirit of the bar could not be broken. With Mike leading the charge in a rainbow furry leg warmer and a cowboy hat as his only articles of clothing, our crew gathered all the remaining libations, sunblock, snacks, and misting bottles to woo every passing driver and biker. We toasted a Dutch couple celebrating their 40th wedding anniversary, saved topless bikers from sunburn, had a dance-off with a dinosaur, and applauded a school principal for playing hooky for the week. Even without all the bells and whistles, Burning Man is just as fun. *Thanks to Anna Bloom for this lovely watercolor portrait of bartender Mike.

The Temple

before and after burning man temple

The Sunday sun was setting and the temple was starting to burn. An impressive structure crisscrossing and spiraling to a peak, housing the handwritten goodbyes, intricate shrines, and whispers of prayers for all things passed. Earlier in the week, we wandered the wooden trestles, admiring the elaborate offerings and reading the impromptu scribbles, like “I should have said I love you” or “Farewell to my straightness.” It’s an emotional place met daily with everything from tears to wedding vows. By the time we arrived, the smoke was billowing and the normal music and chatter of the Playa came to a hush. The crackling fire and whoosh of flames had everyone’s attention as the intentions rose to the sky.

Two Virgins Take on 9 Days in Black Rock City?

Burning Man Virgin experience

Despite this attempt, Burning Man can’t be explained. It offers this indescribable feeling of freedom; it invokes curiosity; it instills confidence; it promotes creativity and celebrates unabashed silliness. It gives you a feeling that no matter what you do, as long as your heart is in the right place, you’ll fit right in. It’s not a total utopia…but in a world without money, bountiful art and music, and free-flowing hugs, Burning Man is definitely onto something.

46 Comments

  1. Amazing post that brought me right back to the playa! It was so great to bump into you so many times and hope this won’t be the last, even though we are virgins no longer. 😎

  2. Kelly McKean says:

    So great to finally meet you! Unforgettable visit to your camp on tear down day with Mike rocking the rainbow colored furry sock. Thanks for the drinks and for the peaches! We were all so collectively happy! ❤️

    1. Such good vibes! So happy we got to hang! May everyday be filled with peaches and PBR 🙂

  3. Sounds amazing! So glad you finally got to experience such an epic event. And the leg warmer? Ha!!

    1. Wynne it was even more amazing than we imagined. The art, the music, the people! Mike was in his element, give him a leg warmer and he is a dancing machine lol.

  4. This was a damn fantastic writeup. And who was that handsome, confident devil in the pink tutu?

    1. Thanks, you rugged ballerina, you. And I feel like we only touched on 20% of the amazing things we experienced!

  5. I have always heard about Burning Man, but never really understood what it was. Thought it was a music festival for the longest time. Thanks for sharing this awesome summation! What was the most suprising thing for you as first timers?

  6. I’ve never seen an aerial view of Burning Man before. It is way larger than I realised. I’m glad you won a tent – that looks so luxurious.

  7. Had no idea THAT many people went to Burning Man. I guess I always thought it was more exclusive.. Having lived in the Bay Area (my last US port of call), I knew quite a few who went every year but I never made it there. The art is incredible looking, but I gotta say your Shiftpod is intriguing as heck! 3 minutes to set it up? I want one!

  8. Wow a Dutch couple for their 40th 🙂 I’d love to take my guy here one day, even though we never get married, we’d love to celebrate such an epic milepost …

  9. I honestly had no clue what Burning Man was, I mean I’d heard about it but never realised how big it is, what the whole idea behind it is etc. so this has really opened my eyes! And loved all of the fancy dress outfits. This looks like awesome fun.

    1. Especially when you hear “it’s not a festival”…you think, then what the heck is it? It’s a lot to wrap your head around but glad this post helped! We had so much fun playing fancy dress 🙂

  10. What an incredible post filled with so much value! The pop-up Advice Tea Stand is just such a cool idea, but I can tell everybody had amazing ideas! Your tent looks amazing and I love the aerial shot!!

    1. Lisa, so glad you enjoyed the post! Burning Man is overflowing with great ideas, such a creative place. That Shiftpod was awesome, right? Made a tent feel like home 🙂

  11. Very interesting! I had always been curious about Burning Man and could never quite figure out what it was. I assumed it was another version of coachella. Seems very far from it!

    1. Glad this was a help! Tons of people think it’s a music festival but there is nothing else like it.

  12. Meenakshi says:

    This is the first time ever I am reading about this place and wow…looks like you had so much fun!
    Loved the layout of the city and the cool desert pod!

  13. You nailed it! The post and the camp! Love the idea Never Never Camp – a place to free yourself. When is this happening again? Thanks for this, it freed me. ❤️❤️❤️

    1. It happens in late August every year. Sounds like you should come to Burning Man 🙂

  14. As a 9 time Burner, and someone who imparted to you, some of her many many Burning Man tips….I see you did well, my friends. Hope to see you in the dust next year!

    So happy for you!

    The man burns in 300 and some odd days….

    1. Vicki! Thank you again for all your tips. So glad we did you proud! See you in the dust 🙂

  15. You guys sure had fun there. Was there a big drug presence there? In related news, do you think it is a safe environment for kids?

    1. Loads of fun. As for the drug presence, we went into Burning Man thinking there was going to be drugs at every turn, and that we would be sort of “weird”, since we don’t do any drugs (not even weed). But it was anything but that. We honestly did not see a SINGLE person do any drugs the entire 9 days at Burning Man (that does not mean they weren’t doing them, of course they were, but it means it wasn’t in your face AT ALL).

      As for bringing kids, there were many many kids there, and it is totally a safe place to bring them. In fact they are kind of treated like celebrities there. Obviously I wouldn’t let a kid roam on their own (pretend you are in any city that has 70k folks), and you need to have a good lodging option cause the weather can be brutal. See you there next year maybe?

  16. Franco Smith says:

    Thanks for the super detailed blog on Burning Man. Did you like the art or the music more?

    1. Thanks for the love Franco. I would say we enjoyed them both…as the music was more in the background for us (we rarely parked ourselves and listened to any of the bands or DJs) and the art was just awesome. We loved biking around, and every day we found new things, it was truly a magical experience….that is SO hard to capture in a blog, you just have to see it for yourself.

  17. Drew Trin says:

    Great post guys. I have always heard about this Burning Man thing, and I always thought it was some music festival, or drug thing…but you guys showed that it is not that at all. Now I want to go!

    1. Thanks so much Drew. We totally agree with you. Thought a very similar thing from the pictures we had seen…but it was not a music festival at all, such a beautiful and amazing community. We can’t wait to go back.

  18. Hi Mike & Anne, you guys are making me extremely jealous, hahaha. You are enjoying life at the best level. Man the Shiftpod looks like the way to do Burning Man. My wife Rosy and I have been thinking about visiting Burning Man for a few years…and your blog just put us over the top, we committed to going next year! Hopefully we see you there!

    1. Yay! That’s awesome Laim. You two will have an INCREDIBLE time. It’s such a wild and inspiring experience. And definitely get the Shiftpod, it will make your stay that much nicer : ) Hope to see you on the Playa too!

  19. Robert Pattinson says:

    what a wonderful write-up on Burning Man. Do you guys think you will go back again, or is it sort of a once-and-done thing?

    1. Oh we will 100% go back. I don’t know if it will be this year, or a future year, but we will totally return. The art and experience is completely different every year. Excited to return now that we know about all its magic!

  20. Bill Bowersock says:

    So glad you loved Burning Man! I was on my 6th burn this year. Last time I camped in a Shiftpod and LOVED it! I even had an air conditioner in it, so all my camp mates came ’round for a nap in the hottest part of the afternoon. I wish I had run across you guys there. Anne, your mother kept asking me if I’d seen you. I reminded her that there were 70,000 people there. Maybe I’ll see you next year.

    1. Oh yeah Bill…absolutely LOVED Burning Man. The Shiftpod was super nice…felt like we were in the lap of luxury in that thing. Totally wish we would have run across you as well. But I am sure some of the positive energy and love we gave to others made it’s way to you….right?

  21. Thanks for the insights and tips on Burning Man. I have often wondered about this mysterious festival, and now I have a better idea.

    1. So glad you enjoyed it Mark! We were also pretty confused about Burning Man before we went….from the photos we thought it was just going to be models possing for photoshoots…and while there is some of that (very little to be honest), it was just a beautiful and amazing show of love for your fellow humans. Oh and also, they say it’s not a festival, but more of a community. Just an FYI if you ever go.

  22. This was my first virgin burn and you nailed it spot on! My favorite part was floating accidental like on a breeze — because anything I manifested really did come true. The playa provides!

    1. So glad you liked the blog brother. You are totally right, the real magic of Burning Man is just hopping on a bike and going with the breeze…so many beautiful things will come your way. The playa is such a beautiful place…now we just need to find out how to bring more of the playa to The Default World!

  23. Anthony Gualdi says:

    Hi There,

    We are two Australian who are booked in and ready for our first Burning Man.

    We would love to join your group, however, with the exception of reading everything possible, don’t know how to join or what the process is, or even if it’s possible.

    Can you help?

    Regards,
    Anthony

    1. Hey Anthony….Sorry I didn’t see this until now. Did you make it to Burning Man? Was it the greatest thing you have ever experienced in your life? I sure hope so!

  24. Eric Yttri says:

    awesome post and content. and so glad you got to see the Black Rock Philharmonic! (I’m the conductor!)

    1. You’re the BRC Philharmonic conductor…how cool! Thanks for checking out HoneyTrek…hope to see you on the Playa again someday!

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